5 Signs You're in a 'Better Than Nothing' Relationship

Are you a serial monogamist—or a serial settler?

You’ve heard it said a million times that you’re better off alone than with someone who’s not right for you, but clearly the people who say that have never experienced the special sadness that comes with a mall food court dinner for one. You may not be with Mr. Right, but if you’re a serial monogamist, you’ve likely become so accustomed to having someone beside you that (almost) anyone will do. Here are five signs that what you have is not the real deal, but rather another notch on your codependent belt.

1. You're Meh About Whether You Guys Have Sex This Week

Sex is the connective tissue in a romantic relationship. Without it, you guys aren’t a couple; you’re just a couple of people who sometimes eat dinner in the same room. If you’ve been with him for a while, you may have convinced yourself that plenty of couples have sex once a month—and you’re right.  It’s just that generally those are the couples who are about to break up. If you’re not interested in seeing him naked, you might want to get very interested in seeing him to the door.
 

6 Reasons You're More Badass Than You Think

Quick: When you woke up this morning and looked in the mirror, did you say something nice or start criticizing flaws? In that work meeting you led a few weeks ago, did you pat yourself on the back, or nitpick every little detail? When you're always trying to improve, it's easy to get caught up in a self-confidence spiral. But here's the thing: According to several studies, the stories we tell ourselves directly contribute to our happiness level and day-to-day satisfaction. So what kind of story do you want to read—and live? Our vote is for a badass adventure that stars your awesome self. Don't believe us? Here's more proof that you're way cooler than you think you are.